Double Standards of Prejudice
Comments (11) Published August 1st, 2007 under ReflectionsI recognize that I have prejudices toward different peoples and cultures. I don’t connect with the prejudice part of me on a regular basis, but there are certain things that come up that remind me how tainted my soul is as I value one people over another.
A recent revelation came when I heard a story of a group of college students who were invited by a doctor in Egypt to witness a cesarean section. This was not necessarily a highlight for the students, and one of them actually fainted.
This doctor ministers among a very poor community, and these students were at this hospital/clinic learning how to minister among the poor. When I heard the story, I wondered, if we would allow this in our country? I doubt there are many women in the United States who would be fine with teen-aged foreigners observing the birth of her child through a cesarean section. And to add to the absurdity, this scene is happening in Egypt where men are not allowed to be with their wives during the birthing process.
There are many ways where we allow for double standards that highlight our prejudices. I think of magazines such as “National Geographic” where nude women from tribal groups are on display for the western reader under the guise of education, yet the reverse is called pornography.
Certainly each culture has double standards, and sometimes those standards are understandable and appropriate. However, to what we are privy (as Westerners) should disturb us. The most progressive minded person among us, may still enjoy aspects of entry in certain cultures that this person would never allow if the situation were reversed.
We have plenty of privileges as Americans (and depending on skin color, the privilege factor increases). Knowing how to channel that privilege in ways that honors both people and God is part of the character-building and maturing process. It seems very few of us know how to do that well.
If I had been in Egypt with that group of students, my first instinct may have been that of curiosity and gratitude for the invitation to witness surgery (since I will never have that sort of invitation in my own country). I wonder, if I need to ask better questions and pay more attention to such decisions. I will not learn about my privileges or prejudices from those who are inviting me to exploit them. I will have to be responsible for that learning process.
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